The chat room experience can be wildly unforeseeable. Anything may happen, depending on who is on the guest list and the general drift of the invitation. They don’t need much encouragement to become orgiastic social forums, safe places where you will have the courage to do things that in other situations would be unimagineable. How fun is that? But they may also serve as warm cubby holes in which intimate partnerships evolve. Use them to your advantage.